Parents As Role Models: 3 Ways to Be a "Rule Model" for Your Kids by Roma Khetarpal
Note: 30Seconds is a participant in affiliate advertising programs and this post may contain affiliate links, which means we may earn a commission or fees if you make a purchase via those links.
Practice what you preach or you can never teach. Here are my top three basic rules that we, the parents, the role models, set for our kids that we must “rule model” as well:
- Foul Language: Switch all the inappropriate four-letter words so they are not used back at you when the kids are mad. Build a clean, age-appropriate vocabulary for your entire family. When you’re not mad, work on finding alternate words for your times of frustration and anger. For example, some great choice words include: "Wow!" "Really!" "Unbelievable!" Or better yet, use sounds to fill the space like “uhhh" and “hmm.” A big grunt always works for me. Sounds help you buy time and release negative energy while tuning down your emotions and responses.
- House Rules: When we set rules for our kids, we must be conscious of following them ourselves. Kids are perceptive and will know when there is one set of rules for them and another for the adults.
- Texting While Driving: No matter how old they are, they’re watching! If you think you can get away with it once in a while, so will they. Be mindful.
Simply put: Practice what you preach or you can never teach.
Take 30 seconds and join the 30Seconds community. Inspire and be inspired.
30Second Mobile, Inc. is a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for us to earn fees by linking to Amazon.com and affiliated sites.
Related Products on Amazon We Think You May Like:
join discussion